The horse has a very regulating affect on our system e.g. how we feel and how our body starts to regulate when we are around horses. One sys

If there was one thing that you might want to take from this is noticing how you are feeling, not judging that sensation or feeling and mayb

We always have certain expectations of our horses. But what about the exceptions the horse has of us and we have of ourselves?

What does a slightest try, from the horse, look and feel like ? Before anything happens physically, the horse’s mind needs to be connected to our questions. He needs to start thinking about what he has to do, get ready. For me that is the slightest try, he is trying to thinking. After that you will see and feel the horse start moving away or towards, depending on what you are looking for, but the feet are not moving yet. The horse is shaping his body. After shaping the horse’

This is already the second blog of 2018. Starting to look forward to longer days, warmer weather….. Sounds like expectations. I thought I would talk about a horse I help to deal with the human’s expectations. I often get asked “how many sessions will it take?”. Well that really depends on so many things. But the main thing is that the horse is in charge of the time. Someone once told me that there are three ingredients: Time Principles Goals Depending on which two you choose,

Happy New Year. I hope you had a great start into 2018. In my last blog I spoke about reflecting on 2017. So now I will be talking about how goals and resolutions can give you a focus, and how these can be met by have step-by-step goals. Some people like to start something or finish something, but there are also some that like to stay in the middle, because it is comfortable. Those who like to start something will probably find it easier to set goals because they are eager to

This will be my last blog of 2017, so I thought it would be a good time to talk about reflecting. As we come to the end of the year, we often wonder what the New Year will bring, but what about the year that is about to come to an end. What about the things we learnt, achieved, the things that didn’t go that well etc. It can be very useful to reflect on how things have gone. It helps us to see the positive and negative side to what ever we are reflecting on. But more importan

How a try and an offer feel different, especially when comparing it to assumptions

In this blog I will be talking about horse and humans making assumptions and how this often occurs unconsciously.